Courtship they say is the best time of your life spent ! It is always told that the pre-wedding days are the best spent days in your life if you look at your love life. These days are more memorable,exciting and romantic than the honeymoon days ( some might not agree :P:P ) . During these days you are treated as king/queen by your partner ;). You get to know each other in a whole different way than before! You would be showered with love, care and surprise gifts. The whole feeling can only be experienced and not expressed 😀
The day you meet your partner is going to be the most memorable day of your life( if you know he/she is your’s for the rest of the eternity that is! and yes you will sure get this feeling once you meet them! ). The first date, make it as special as you can. In case of arranged marriages, mostly parents would accompany you when you meet your date for the first time. But you can always arrange a special date with your would be (with or without the permission of parents in India 😉 ). Its up to you and your partner to make it so special and memorable as these are the moments which you are going to cherish for ever.
Coming to the vebue, One thing I can suggest you guys here is never limit your budget for your first date, budgeting can be done during wedding and not first date . You can select a good restaurant with perfect ambiance, nothing better than a romantic candle light dinner. You can select a nice beach facing restaurant, or a luxurious high rise restaurant or that one special place, as per your wish and convenience you guys can plan accordingly. Since this is going to be a memorable moment purchase a special gift for your partner. It need not be too expensive, but something special to cherish the beautiful moment in future. Enjoy your first date guys !!!
Coming soon: First gift!!
Like BC & AD in calendar years, life has two parts. 1)Before Marriage 2) After Marriage (If you are gonna get married of course 😛 😛 ). If not taken jokingly, there is huge difference in both eras ( calling it that as it seems like one to me ;-)). In the simplest way, The first part we will be living as a ‘SON’ or a “DAUGHTER’ where we have our parents to look after us. Here we don’t have much responsibility, tensions, no critical decision-making. When it comes to the second part, SON/DAUGHTER changes to Husband/Wife, you are equally responsible for keeping the bond together.
We are not planning a big discussion about this, but a just a sneak peek into a girl’s & boy’s life before wedding. How they lived before becoming the happily ever after couple. This is a topic which we can write about endlessly.But we thought an infographic will speak better than a blog ( smart working is always better ).
The right amount of everything is needed to make a Family, play multiple roles (son, husband, daughter, wife,daughter-in-law,son-in-law) after marriage. This is how life is designed, this is where Family comes into existence and this is where we become responsible for ourselves as well as others. Precisely the time you almost decide to give away your girlish/boyish ways to become the Man or the Woman of the relationship! Now don’t get me wrong with all this boy girl thing going. I am just giving a little orange signal to the one’s about to me married and a gentle reminder of the old life to the one’s already married 😛 😛